Sometimes i wonder how a thought can alone bring a feeling of success and failure..
I am a very optimistic person,recover soon from everything almost.,and this attitude had been generated through reading,yeah!!i love to read good stuff,books like mind power,power of subconscious mind,power of thoughts..etc etc
And what i had discovered through my thought process is that you doesn't need to change your environment to change ur mood & life.Our thoughts have the power.I know many of you have read it several times,even while writing i am also thinking that this is not new! but it is new to me in terms of realization.See we all know that theoretical and practical life are so different,when we are off track we try to change our mood,by reading by outing etc etc,but these are on temporary basis.And when it comes about real life,about problems,about people who are really annoying,fake people,failure etc then all the good stuff flushes out of our mind and we are like shit what the hell!!!
As we are not saint, this is but obvious that we would feel bad,we can't just say like its ok,this is materialistic world,we should detach ourselves from everything,blah blah!!! This is really cant possible.Some one had said WE should not expect anything,our expectation hurts us!! OH really???i mean how this is possible,that being a human with infinite caliber & possibilities,with this much of intelligence we should not use our head,just because if we will do, this may hurt us!! ohh come on!!
I think our expectation are the only reason for our growth!As an student if i am studying than i am expecting a good score,and if i ll not set a goal(which is obviously generated through my expectation),why would i study then???
See its not about following,its about knowing!!Many proverbs said by peoples are all based on their personal experience,and if they suits you then follow other let them be...
Be intelligent in your way,See just a thought can change your mood,an emotion which is an energy in motion can bring goods to you.Life is not about struggling,its about enjoying and i don't think their is any such thing called failure because that was an attempt only!! Determining it as a failure or a victory is your choice.I know success taste better but failure too does.Failure determines your personality,your maturity.And we should learn to be stable,to be peaceful from inside.By doing this you generate a sense that everything happens is just a part of journey,nothing is forever.
And then when your problems,your sorrows,your failure will arise you will RECOVER VERY SOON...very soon..