Okay this one is direct from my heart <3
What this word "RELATION" really means?
M 21 now,i had gone through many types of situation,i had deal with different kinds of people.I had many good&bad people in life.
At certain times the best relation turned into worst.
And BEING on such roller-coaster of relation,i realised what relations are all about,..
Relation means when you are giving freedom to someone to enter into your life,and being a part of their too..
It means you are giving that person a freedom to be a part of your feelings,your time,your thought,your heart,your good &bad time.
But but but,this doesn't mean that "that person is responsible to take care of your happiness and your mood."
IF you have a best buddy in your life or any other person close to you,you can relate my words.
BEST BUDDY:A person with whom you share most of the things ,telling them whats on your mind,regardless it make sense or not!! you tell them your mind stories about someone,and than to, not feeling guilty if it was just your thought not the truth.
A person never complains you that you are not giving time,he just come to you and talk you no matter what it is about..
sometimes it happened that both are busy in life,and not talking most of the time,but still everything is in place.That person always love you,never take things on heart.
AND the most important is Their is no involved-feeling to treat you special but you always feel special.
This is what a ideal relation means.'
But i had realised that now people expect too much from others,we think that if someone is saying us that he loves us,then that person had to take care of your mood(especially).
I am not saying that expectations should not be their,it is very obvious,that if u had close ones,u expect something from them,but am saying about limitless expectation.
And i understand that many times,some people in your life hurts you,demotivate you,question you,be abusive,lie to you,and many more such things,so in such case its better to leave them..
But i am talking about those,who are good to you,but you yourself are creating various stories in your mind,and then reacting according to them..this will surely spoil the relation,even if you both have affection for each other.
I WANT THAT YOU SHOULD FREE THE PERSON IN EVERY SENSE,SO THAT HE/SHE CAN LIVE HIS/HER LIFE AND ENJOY THE RELATION WITH YOU..
INSTEAD OF CONTROLLING THEM AND THINKING THAT THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS/SADNESS,JUST FREE YOURSELF AND THEM TOO.
MAINTAIN PEACE WITH YOURSELF FIRST :)
LOVE YOURSELF :)
AND DONT TRY TO CONTROL PEOPLE :) THIS WILL JUST HURT YOU.
JUST ENJOY YOUR PRESENCE :)
What this word "RELATION" really means?
M 21 now,i had gone through many types of situation,i had deal with different kinds of people.I had many good&bad people in life.
At certain times the best relation turned into worst.
And BEING on such roller-coaster of relation,i realised what relations are all about,..
Relation means when you are giving freedom to someone to enter into your life,and being a part of their too..
It means you are giving that person a freedom to be a part of your feelings,your time,your thought,your heart,your good &bad time.
But but but,this doesn't mean that "that person is responsible to take care of your happiness and your mood."
IF you have a best buddy in your life or any other person close to you,you can relate my words.
BEST BUDDY:A person with whom you share most of the things ,telling them whats on your mind,regardless it make sense or not!! you tell them your mind stories about someone,and than to, not feeling guilty if it was just your thought not the truth.
A person never complains you that you are not giving time,he just come to you and talk you no matter what it is about..
sometimes it happened that both are busy in life,and not talking most of the time,but still everything is in place.That person always love you,never take things on heart.
AND the most important is Their is no involved-feeling to treat you special but you always feel special.
This is what a ideal relation means.'
But i had realised that now people expect too much from others,we think that if someone is saying us that he loves us,then that person had to take care of your mood(especially).
I am not saying that expectations should not be their,it is very obvious,that if u had close ones,u expect something from them,but am saying about limitless expectation.
And i understand that many times,some people in your life hurts you,demotivate you,question you,be abusive,lie to you,and many more such things,so in such case its better to leave them..
But i am talking about those,who are good to you,but you yourself are creating various stories in your mind,and then reacting according to them..this will surely spoil the relation,even if you both have affection for each other.
I WANT THAT YOU SHOULD FREE THE PERSON IN EVERY SENSE,SO THAT HE/SHE CAN LIVE HIS/HER LIFE AND ENJOY THE RELATION WITH YOU..
INSTEAD OF CONTROLLING THEM AND THINKING THAT THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS/SADNESS,JUST FREE YOURSELF AND THEM TOO.
MAINTAIN PEACE WITH YOURSELF FIRST :)
LOVE YOURSELF :)
AND DONT TRY TO CONTROL PEOPLE :) THIS WILL JUST HURT YOU.
JUST ENJOY YOUR PRESENCE :)
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